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  1. Jane

    Bali isn’t a country, FYI. 😉

    Actually, Bali was one of the few places where I DID feel unsafe in Indonesia, where I have lived and traveled extensively (usually alone). I found that Bali–and other locations that cater to young, partying backpackers–tend to attract the shady, predatory types that I didn’t often encounter in non-touristy areas (this goes for much of Southeast Asia, in fact). In major tourist areas like Bali, I felt I always had to worry about being scammed, being a target for predatory sexual harassment, having my drink spiked, etc. A friend of mine was roofied there, others were scammed by policy looking for bribes. It’s depressing, to me, to have to adopt an attitude of distrust towards local people in order to stay safe.

    While it requires maybe a different kind of traveler, I recommend people get off the tourist party circuit and visit other parts of Indonesia. Much of Java is quite safe and easy to travel (although, no, you wan’t be able to wear a bikini there).

    • I know 😉 That’s why the article is “destinations.” 4 of the items aren’t countries- Bali included. Everyone has their own travel experiences, so it’s always good to hear different points of view. But WOW I surely didn’t share the same experience as you. Everything in Bali felt so laid back and locals were incredibly kind, helpful and honest.

      I didn’t feel that Bali was a party or backpacker destination either, but I also avoided areas like Kuta and didn’t “party” there and wasn’t traveling with other backpackers. So perhaps, that was why I wasn’t a target. In the end, it’s all about judgement. Don’t go to areas that are known for crime or may put you in danger as a solo traveler.

  2. Melissa

    What’s your opinion on the safety of solo female travelers in London?

    • I’d give the same advice to any solo female traveler in most major cities. I’ve traveled solo in London on 3 different trips and found it to be perfectly safe. Use your street smarts and avoid any areas that are common for crime. I think pick-pocketing is probably the most common crime on tourists, so just be sure to keep your belongings close- especially if the tube is crowded.

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